It’s been a minute since I’ve written to my Singletons out there. I’ve been listening & learning more & more recently about the on goings of relationships. The more & more time passes, & the more & more I learn, I keep coming back to the same thoughts: “Do not settle & allow God to guide you to the right person for you” and “Love yourself more than you love another person.”
I can say that most people I know seemed to not have done any one of the two things above. They are in various situations & relationships that would make one think, “Is God in this?” (Which we know that God is not in the midst of confusion) Also, how can you love someone completely, if you don’t love the “you” in You?? As crazy as it sounds, many people put others over themselves & this can come off in the form of settling rather than living, loving, & learning.
It’s sad in many instances, because our time on Earth is so limited & many chose to spend it in a situation (or situations) in which they are not happy. Believe me, I’m not one to think that all relationships are roses & sunshine (it will be work regardless), but wouldn’t this work be better accomplished with the one God has chosen?
Time truly waits for no one, & time is definitely one of things we cannot get back once it’s gone; we must look to God for all choices & guidance. So singletons: do not settle, know what you want in a person, love yourself, seek God, & allow Him to step in. Be open to what He will bring you, but do not compromise on what you know He intends for you to have. Life is way too short!!
Until next time.
Blessings,
© Lisi P, 2011
